Before we go further, read this together:

“May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.” — Psalm 19:14

Now ask each other:

• Which is easier for you to control — your words or your thoughts?
  
  
• When tension rises, which one usually gets away from you first?
  
  
• In what ways is the communication in our marriage “pleasing to God”?